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		<title>Research: Separation, divorce and reconciliation</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcebalance.com/2012/09/research-separation-divorce-and-reconciliation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2012 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dell Deaton</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Reconciliation]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tough to follow some of the logical connections claimed in this recently released study on marital separation, reconciliation, and divorce out of Ohio State University. But here are three statistics that I found clear, valid, and helpful: 80% of married couples who separate will ultimately divorce 5% of married couples who separate will try to reconcile Of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If &#8220;you don&#8217;t want someone to see your private&#8230;.&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 18:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dell Deaton</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[re The big brew-ha-ha over recent topless photos of Kate Middleton, Duchess of Cambridge, wife of Prince William, taken by those dreadful paparazzi. Yet my mama and daddy always taught me that if you don&#8217;t want someone to see your private parts, then don&#8217;t show them in public for someone to see. Contributor Roland Martin wrote that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How complicated is divorce, really?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 20:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dell Deaton</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blind Spots]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.divorcebalance.com/?p=329</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Among too many uncritically examined &#8220;givens&#8221; you&#8217;ll hear bandied about the courthouse as truth, I&#8217;ll note the following. Every family situation is unique. No judge could decide better than the married spouses themselves what&#8217;s best in organizing their separation in divorce than they are, themselves. Or— Believe me: You&#8217;re really not gonna like it if [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;How To &#8216;Not&#8217; Use Social Media&#8221; when divorcing</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcebalance.com/2011/12/how-not-to-use-social-media-when-divorcing/</link>
		<comments>http://www.divorcebalance.com/2011/12/how-not-to-use-social-media-when-divorcing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 21:23:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dell Deaton</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blind Spots]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhooking]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.divorcebalance.com/?p=326</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Dating After Divorce: How To Not Use Social Media,&#8221; is the title of a piece by &#8220;comedian&#8221; Juliet Jeske on the Huffington Post. After two introductory paragraphs, Ms Jeske gets down to it with 10 points she recommends be followed. Then closes with this bit of wisdom. You are bound to be slightly insane after a divorce, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Divorce, municipalities, and customer service</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcebalance.com/2011/12/divorce-municipalities-and-customer-service/</link>
		<comments>http://www.divorcebalance.com/2011/12/divorce-municipalities-and-customer-service/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 16:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dell Deaton</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Legal Matters]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.divorcebalance.com/?p=322</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In case I haven&#8217;t made it clear in the past, I&#8217;m not in favor of a &#8220;get it over and move on&#8221; mentality for divorce. That&#8217;s not the same as advocating a paternalistic, we know better imposition of value-based process on married couples looking to separate, of course. Nor condoning disrespect or institutionalized inefficiences rationalized [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Employers providing divorce expense reimbursements</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcebalance.com/2011/11/employers-providing-divorce-expense-reimbursements/</link>
		<comments>http://www.divorcebalance.com/2011/11/employers-providing-divorce-expense-reimbursements/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Nov 2011 21:19:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dell Deaton</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Finances]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Legal Matters]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[employers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[finances]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[london]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pay for divorce]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.divorcebalance.com/?p=318</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Increasingly, small businesses are &#8220;offering to help key staff pay their divorce bills in an attempt to retain valued personnel.&#8221; This, according to the Financial Times of London, last Friday. One of the more personally fascinating aspects of divorce for me is its greatly underestimated impact on employee productivity. I&#8217;ve often thought that if employers [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Tennessee Supreme Court shapes alimony decisions?</title>
		<link>http://www.divorcebalance.com/2011/06/tennessee-supreme-court-shapes-alimony-decisions/</link>
		<comments>http://www.divorcebalance.com/2011/06/tennessee-supreme-court-shapes-alimony-decisions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 18:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dell Deaton</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Finances]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;ve gotta read beyond some of the unfortunately sensationalistic lead-in copy here to get at what&#8217;s being debated. In an article appearing in The Tennessean last Friday, reporter Brandon Gee eventually gets around to summarizing the two positions. Is the purpose of spousal support to maintain marital lifestyle according to some adjusted (according to what?) [...]]]></description>
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