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November 11, 2008

“Just following orders: Kirk the maverick?,” Star Trek Magazine (magazine), Keith DeCandido (November / December 2008)

“When one looks back on the character of James T. Kirk, often the phrases that come to mind are ‘doesn’t follow orders,’ ‘goes his own way,’ ‘maverick,’ ‘plays by his own rules.’”

Though perhaps not the sort of mainstream fare of which divorce mediation blogs are made, the fictional Captain Kirk who originated with the 1960s TV series on the starship Enterprise is sufficiently well-known to serve as immediate example here.

You know him, right?

Maybe not.

After inferring buy-in to his premise, quoted above, Mr. DeCandido goes on to argue that “if you actually look at the episodes of the television show that aired from 1966-1969, you see almost none of that.”

Isolated quotes and actions taken out of context are the exceptions on which the image of Kirk àla “cowboy diplomacy and bending the rules.” But when you take the time to actually look mission-by-mission (ie, episode-by-episode of the series), you find a commander who follows proper procedure, orders, and chain of command, by and large, throughout.

The value for our purposes here is to underscore the need to avoid clichés and snap judgments, to see how easily one can fall for labels in lieu of looking at what the substance actually tells us.

There’s a lot less danger in doing this by way of the Star Trek universe, of course: Unlike in divorce court, where real lives are truly on the line.

—posted by Dell Deaton @12:09 AM EST 11/11/2008
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