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May 20, 2008

The Enforcer— Why cant you get blood from a stone?: Reasons why parents don’t pay child support, Michigan Family Law Journal, David Findling (February 2008)

To quote an old cliché, we have here a Rogue’s Gallery of “the usual suspects” in answer to the question posed by the title of this Michigan Family Law Journal article by attorney David Finding.

  • Economic Inability

  • Emotional Reasons

    • Control

    • Revenge

  • Poor Enforcement (by the system)

  • Incarcerated Individuals

But it’s the closing paragraph that makes this piece one to quote:

“It is crucial for lawyers to understand the emotional and psychological reasons why parents don’t pay child support so they can successfully counsel clients that may be responding inappropriately to a support situation.” Or, I might add: To develop appropriate strategies to help their clients effectively deal with and counter those emotional and psychological underpinnings.

In other words, just as a client in divorce may be ill-served to go forward without trained legal assistance, so, too, it is important to know when other similarly specialized professionals in specific fields are needed to achieve best outcomes.

—posted by Dell Deaton @3:22 PM EST 5/27/2008
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