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May 13, 2008

“Lawyers are among the most miserable of men and woman (sic),” Michigan Family Law Journal, Norman N. Robbins, Editor (February 2008)

The point of tangent here is actually a December 12, 2007, article from the Wall Street Journal. Mr. Robbins, then, begins here by stating:

“that Lawyers are among the most miserable of men and woman. 19% of lawyers suffer depression at any given time compared with 6.7% of the population as a whole.” This quote is actually from Connie Beck of the University of Arizona. She is a leading researcher on the subject. She also points out that one in five lawyers is a problem drinker, which is twice the national average.

What does that mean, then, if your divorce involves at least one lawyer for you, one for your spouse, and, of course, the judge that hears your case is a lawyer? That’s three. Add two more for the divorce matter to be heard either before or after your own, and you’ll get a sense for the scope of the issue being discussed here.

Still, Mr. Robbins goes on

The subject of mental health is rarely discussed by lawyers and seldom presented at seminars.... The subject seems to be hidden burden that is not to be shared. It is taboo.

Why? Because “lawyers never discuss anything that publicizes the fact that they are suffering from an ailment or affliction that may hinder their ability to practice law.”

It is “very disheartening to see” this in a colleague, he writes.

Disheartening, too, for the client who must so heavily rely upon these professionals for the sake of their children, well-being, and ultimately, their divorce recovery. Somehow, an 80% to 81% chance there’s no underlying problem seems thin.

—posted by Dell Deaton @2:16 PM EST 5/13/2008
OS 2531.80

 

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